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Full Moon in Capricorn (II)- you are the leader of tomorrow

Powerful chart and powerful MOMENT! The Second Full moon in Capricorn this month shines the maximum light on the 21st of July.

Not only this is the second full moon in Capricorn, it is at29 degrees ( the first was at 0 degrees) AND it is the degree that Pluto retrograde will visit again this fall.

 

There is a big moment of “hard” truth being surfaced and dismantling of OLD structures built on greed, power struggles, manipulation, death with NO regards and care for the good of all, the planet, the future.

 

In a personal way this goes back to a lot of letting go of control ( aspect with Neptune in Pisces at 29 too), ending a big cycle, learning to TRUST in a bigger PLAN, in a Bigger Vision and in GOD/ Goddess.

We cannot continue to develop and build corporations and businesses lead by the 1% and also lead by dark forces that manipulate everything. We cannot continue having only money and power obtained with all costs as the only “dream/ goal”.

 

There is a lot of revealing going on about the leaders of the world and the way it is run. About who is actually doing what and a lot of secrets about rulers and big companies surface more and more *pluto.

 

Taking ownership of your OWN life, accessing your INNER LEADER, authority and Sovereignty is a theme in the works now and for all of this year. 

 

As all of the above can stop and the world you want and dream of can be manifested ONLY by EACH of us taking charge. 
Healing the past old wounds that say ” I am small, I don;t matter, I believe the official version, I give my power and authority away to whoever has money and perceived success, I do NOT trust myself or God or a bigger plan” etc…

 

The leaders of tomorrow are YOU, ME, each of us that takes responsability, processes the inner victimhood state and mentality and RISES to CREATE their own better reality that is based on truth, cooperation, heart lead decisions, divinity integrated in the day to day.

 

 

We can Feel a cycle closing or like something ending even if we don’t know what it is. Situations that come forth to serve you lessons like self empowerment, self trust, letting go of control, seeing the bigger picture, LEADING YOURSELF COURAGEOUSLY! 

 

We have been disconnected from our hearts, inner power, divinity, sense of purpose, sovereignty. 

AND NOW is TIME to REMEMBER all of that. 

 

 

 

What are you willing to let go of now?

What are you noticing is not working anymore the old way and needs closure, letting go?

 

We can see that the OLD ways are starting to not work anymore. A lot of us feel the calling for something different.

This can be different marketing, different ideas to implement, different business, leadership, different ways to collaborate, different values that we truly need to remember.

 

It takes courage and a lot of inner work to empower yourself and RISE, stop believing, listening to, adoring and valuing NON values, illusory fame and power. 

 

It takes courage to say things differently and to do everything differently when the old is still present and has a deep grip on you and your mental.

It is NOT IMPOSSIBLE.

 

Surprise keeps being something we get used to already (Uranus in Taurus). News that are surprising, situations that are shocking or sudden and moreover _ revealing truth that is surprising AND PEOPLE starting to have a VOICE again, to not stand with the imposed models anymore. The imposed and manipulated reality anymore. 

 

HEART ERA IS HERE.

Even though we might experience a few days, even weeks with hightened irritation, rushing into things and judgement *mars in gemini* , not focusing, heart, passion and DARING COMMUNICATION that MOVES is also a facet of it ( Mercury in Leo).

 

Speak up.
SPeak your truth.

Don’t put up with the Pretending and the Fakeness. Call people out if needed and of use.

Return into the soft, gentle, loving Cancer heart and the generous, creative, powerful Leo Heart.

 

When you truly descend into your heart and learn to sit still more, listen in more there is a new REALITY unveiling for you. 
When you “SEE” with the heart, you start seeing the truth and nothing can trick you anymore. 

 

 

When you remember and reconnect to the Higher Mind and Higher Love ( Neptune, Uranus), to the Wisdom of your SOUL – you will see the through all the bullshit that is pushed before your eyes, through your OWN bullshit and illusions too. 

 

YES, it is not easy or pleasant.

The taking ownership, the leading yourself, the Truth, the integrity, the Devotion path is not an easy one. When everywhere distortion is what is sold as real and true. 

AND So- only having the courage to SEE your OWN bullshit– old stories, limitation, control, rigidness, need for attention, need for “being important”, powerlessness, selling your energy and time to perceived authority, lack of self trust, of Bigger Vision for yourself, lack mentality you keep living in, desperation and even apathy…avoidance, blaming, waiting for others to save you…- then you are REALLY on the path of EMPOWERMENT and truly able to EMBODY THE inner DEVOTIONAL, heart based, MATURE LEADER. 

 

 

I don’t say all of this to shame you or to make you feel bad. I say this as it is reality. And not many are willing to FACE REALITY. Especially the inner one, the personal one. As the collective one will be revealed as a consequence.

 

We are all “pushed” or served opportunities to grow. From within. As leaders and Multi dimensional, Sacred and Powerful beings that come together to manifest a new world, a new way.

 

This is inevitable. It takes patience, time, acceptance, letting go, trusting, trusting, trusting….and continuing to Descend into YOU , continuing to OWN, EMBODY your truth, your Soul, your real frequency, your gifts, your Divinity.

The time of Gurus, Empty words and promisses, illusory enlightenment is over.

 

The ones that descend into their heart and find god within will be able to SEE through everything and choose wisely.

 

It is all about Embodiment now. YOU BEING the FREQUENCY and not jus talking about it. 

IT is time for COURAGEOUS LEADERS that OWN up who they are even if there is still fear in the background and unsolved wounds. Even if half of the world don’t get them.

 

When you learn to Lead with GOD, from your Hear, to live a sacred, present, devotional Life, in truth and impecability – integrity – you CHANGE the Frequency of the ENTIRE EARTH and HUMANITY. YOU CREATE transformation. You give permission. You are a real MODEL for the young. 

 

You become- remembering- who you were created to be lifetimes ago.

 

 

It is a powerful full moon, year, times.

And no, it is not ending. It has just begun.

Learn to lean in and trust the journey, trust your Soul and the bigger plan, CUltivate FAITH, embodied, true faith. Take action, courageous action and BE 100 % you, not what others want, expect, tell you to be.

Continue doing the work, staying on this path.

Do not SELL your Soul, you Energy.

 

Be very honest with yourself and act with integrity.

 

How you LEAD yourself when it is chaos, when nothing works as you want IT IS THE MOST IMPORTANT.

 

 

of course, if you feel there is a ritual, a ceremony for you to do to let go, close off things, chapters and make bold new decisions- listen to your inner calling and guidance!

 

 

In Truth, heart, devotion,

Anca Lavinia and the Divine

 

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PS : I have a great invitation for you- speaking about empowerment and leadership: the MAgdalene Rising SUMMIT taking place on 22-24 th of July, online!

I will be one of the guest speakers and I can’t wait for three days of celebration truth revealed and seeds planted!

JOIN  for free HERE

 

 

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PPS: I have a couple of spots open for the Intuitive Transformational Astrology Session. More than astrology, more than just talk. All tailored and connected to your energy, story and life. Send an email to book: scrie-mi@ancalavinia.ro

 

 

Who is Lilith and Why are we afraid of her?

Hey dear one!

Lilith has been and still is the scapegoat for all “bad” feminine traits. At the beginning, when I searched some pics with her on the internet I only found demons. Only if you dig a little deeper you can find something else.

And so I did.

 

My journey with her began when I did not understand who she is and what she wants from me in my natal chart. So…I directly asked her to show me, teach me, reveal to me her gifts and inititations.

I am still integrating and working through the BIGNESS and POWER house she is and represents inside of me….and each of us.

 

In Astrology and not only- she is exiled, banished as this dark, bad feminine. But how did we get here?

 

First, the story told about the woman is the one of Lilith that did not want and accept to be dominated by the man * Adam* so she rebelled and was exiled as this bad thing that you do Not want to be or have anything to do with.
Then Eve appeared, the one that was made to fit into the societal norms and become what we now call the good girl.

Nontheless, she is also considered the temptress – the bringer of sin and corruption for the man.From the get go we have the woman as sinful thus bad. The Woman was cursed to live a life in pain, shutting up and obeying, good for only bearing children and serving the man.

This story took roots and can see it unfolding greatly in our recent history.

 

The woman was seen as weak, hysterical for her emotions. Praised for being a mother and for “good” manners, being the good wife. Secretly she was desired and expected to also perform in bed but wait….not too much as she would become a whore. ( did you know that the word whore has the roots into the word “hor” which means womb ?)

So…a separation was made between the mistress ( temptress and sinful yet yearned for) and the good, silenced, serving wife/friend/mother.

THis continued with how the woman should behave and what she is supposed to think, do, look like according to a society created by men for men, with trends dictated by men, usually for men.

The woman that dared and continued to remain connected to the moon, the earth, the herbs, her womb, her wisdom was out of the sudden considered DANGEROUS (sinful) thus persecuted, burnt , tortured, killed by white men- inquisition ( when the Catholic church started their Conquering and stealing the riches across nations and continents in the name of the  lord).

 

A POWERFUL WOMAN – aware of her sexuality, wisdom, gifts, magic – is a DANGEROUS WOMAN.

 

This is what has been imprinted, programmed, deeply inserted in our cells, brains, body. This is what still rules us.

 

This is Lilith. All that has been repressed, boxed, punished, judged, shamed, killed, disapproved in a woman. 

 

How dare she? 

Is what most women think when they are in the presence or see a woman that is embodying her magnetism, power, sexual energy, magic, truth, wisdom. 

 

Who does she think she is? 

She is DARK, she is Bad, she is weird! 

 

This hides ” I am afraid of her” , take her away, i don’t want to feel this anymore, I will leave her presence, judge, reject, mock, speak against her.

 

They did such a great job instigating women against women didn’t they?

 

The Woman is accepted and valued as a good person if she CONFORMS. If she is how you expect her to be ( by this I mean how societal rules and boxes said she should be).

 

When she dares to be something else, to not fit in, to challenge all that is considered normal and keeps people in their cozy, comfort zone- she is DARK, EVIL even.

 

This is Lilith. 

 

She was associated with demons and sin ( by the way did you know that Sin comes from the goddess of the MOON called Sin?) thus associated with DARKness hence this nowadays instant association people make when encountering, being in the presence of a DEEP embodied FEMININE.

 

We have been made to believe that to be feminine means to be the good, pleasant Barbie girl.To be quiet, have manners, speak faintly, smile a lot, have no opinions, wear dresses and red lipstick, be always on a diet, go to a facial each week and do your nails.

 

There is NO ROOM for the WILD FEMININE- for the DISRUPTIVE feminine in our minds and world- yet. 

 

So when you see the wild feminine that DARES to walk straight believing in herself, knowing she is a Priestess walking on earth, connected to this ancient and deep wisdom in her body and womb you immediately go to “she is dark”, ” she is arrogant”, ” she is scary”, ” she is too much”….etc.

 

It is a great act of courage to walk this path. THe SACRED Feminine Path, the Path of the LIBERATED feminine. That means ALL aspects of the feminine. (and yes, that is also Lilith, Kali and so many more).

 

 

Lilith in Libra is and will, together with the South Node- stirring the TRUTH. The deep truth that we do not want to see about us in our relationships.

The relationship with myself- my power, my repressed parts and truth. 

The relationship with the wild daring feminine.

The relationship with all others outside of me.

 

Will I take my power back and descend into this part that I consider dark and I fear? Will I make space for some other feminine expression other than good, smiling, having it all together, sacrificing a lot parts?

Will I dare to meet her, Lilith- the Liberated feminine essence in myself and break the chains of programming, boxing, the rules that imprisoned me so deeply and disconnected me so much so from myself that I keep rejecting and fearing my OWN POWER?

 

 

Time for breaking the ancestral programming and dare to set yourself free. Dare to be You.
Dare to meet, look in the eyes, integrate all the rejected parts of yourself.

Time to Rise as a Wisdom Keeper of this Earth beyond anything your mind can image or understand.

Are you feeling this?

 

 

 

 

 

𝙏𝙍𝙐𝙏𝙃 𝙬𝙖𝙧𝙣𝙞𝙣𝙜 !𝙄 𝙖𝙢 𝙣𝙤𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙋𝙧𝙤𝙗𝙡𝙚𝙢 𝙟𝙪𝙨𝙩 𝙗𝙚𝙘𝙖𝙪𝙨𝙚 𝙄 𝙖𝙢 𝙖 𝙒𝙤𝙢𝙖𝙣

What were the messages- subtle or in your face- you received about your body, sensuality and sexuality growing up? … and before that… your mom, grandma, women all over?
❣️❣️❣️The TRUTH: because you are a woman you are definitely and without discussion the Temptress, the Issue, guilty. Because you are beautiful and magnetic and sensual by Nature you automatically seduce men and that makes you the bad guilty one! Even if you just walk around carefree… let alone if you wear “provocative” clothes! God forbid that cleavage, that short skirt or who knows what that reveals your body. That makes you the guilty one if men treat you poorly.
It is your fault if you are abused, mocked, humiliated! How dare you be a Woman?! And embody your sexual power and magnetic energy?!!! Don’t you know that is Bad? And makes men helpless – can’t hold themselves responsible?
❣️ Tʜɪs IS ᴛʜᴇ ᴜɴᴅᴇʀʟʏɪɴɢ MESSAGE ᴡᴇ ɢᴇᴛ! From the patriarchal and religious point of view!
Since Eve was already put in that box – the one that led all into sin (as if Adam was 11 and couldn’t say No”) ALL women are guilty! And this SHADOW living in the basement of our society, men, religion and even women is Stinky and Gross but so real!
�so… as a girl- especially if there is a christian (not only) background I am expected to behave, to not wear jewels, to put on only covering the entire body clothes, no make up… nothing to Enhance my bad- seductress- evil side! Nothing to allow me to be aware , proud and free in my body, connected with my Sexual Energy. And that- to not tempt the men! “Women!!! Keep in your lane and do not dare show your beauty and sexiness as we are but mere mortal with no will, integrity, morals”
I am fully letting Lilith Speak Up the TRUTH! It is Leo new moon with Lilith so present!
❓Do you remember any moments , contexts in your childhood and teens when you were feeling awkward, ashamed, guilty for your looks, body, sensual expression?
❓How has that rippled and been carried on as an adult woman?
I for once have been seen and treated as the guilty one in all contexts involving men. From the get go. Me being aware and embodying my se*ual energy was a big NO wrapped up in shame and anger.
So I have learnt during multiple years that I am wrong, bad for wanting pleasure or for being magnetic, for just showing myself as a woman. I have learnt that se*uality is bad for a woman to express but ok for men and in any circumstances she is the guilty one.
It makes my stomach turn thinking of those comments (from women too- as the patriarchal sexist gaze was internalized) : “she is a slut, she provoked him, she shouldn’t dress like that!” Again! Like the man involved has NO will, morals, restraint and integrity and he is absolved of all of his heinous actions!
This is a SERIOUS topic and BIG shadow we need to expose, recognize and work with towards acceptance and alchemy.
❣️❤️‍🩹⚠️ 𝙏𝙝𝙞𝙨 𝙠𝙞𝙣𝙙 𝙤𝙛 𝙤𝙥𝙥𝙧𝙚𝙨𝙨𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙖𝙗𝙪𝙨𝙚 𝙢𝙖𝙠𝙚𝙨 𝙢𝙚 𝙖𝙨 𝙖 𝙬𝙤𝙢𝙖𝙣 𝙨𝙥𝙡𝙞𝙩 𝙞𝙣𝙩𝙚𝙧𝙣𝙖𝙡𝙡𝙮, repress and reject the Sensual Seductress, embodied Magnetic Woman in me and this is how Shadow is created- split parts disowned and sent into the basement!
I turn into the repressed, judgy, anxious woman that sees sexuality something to be ashamed of, closed off, ashamed of her body and all things pleasurable and sensual.
I become my OWN internalized Patriarchal- Abuser: “be ashamed of ur body! Don’t wear that – its too slutty, shut up and take it – its your duty!” and soooo on do forth – you get it!
I am sure you also have this voice inside of you!
❤️‍🩹There is also a stage or the possibility you turn into the full on Shadow Seductress to punish men. You attract them through sexual games and use that as power having ur heart closed off and devouring their energy, leaving them after a one night stand or after they fall in love with you.
All the wounding this paradigm created- unbelievable strong!!!
Nowadays – se*ual content sells, women are se*ualized everywhere , the P@rn industry thrives AND in the same time Powerful, Sensual embodied women are villified, judged, shamed! In the same time this Shadow of “you are sinful, guilty if seducing men” is soooo present and a message as well.
So we are fed the same thing in different ways.
⚠️We want women to be slu tty and give us their bodies buuut wait! 𝙒𝙚 𝙙𝙤𝙣’𝙩 𝙬𝙖𝙣𝙩 𝙒𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙣 𝙖𝙬𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙘𝙤𝙣𝙨𝙘𝙞𝙤𝙪𝙨 𝙤𝙛 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙞𝙧 𝙎𝙚*𝙪𝙖𝙡 𝙋𝙤𝙬𝙚𝙧 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙚𝙣𝙚𝙧𝙜𝙮❗ 𝙏𝙝𝙚𝙮 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙙𝙖𝙣𝙜𝙚𝙧𝙤𝙪𝙨❗
🌹It is time to look deep inside into our shadow: rage, shame, guilt, fear around se*uality and freely expressing ourselves as women; around men and all the historical stories.
It is ok to recognize the deep Feelings you have and let them out- process them and give all the parts in you Space to be seen and Heard!
🌹 𝗜𝘁 𝗶𝘀 𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝗯𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗸 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗱𝗶𝘀𝘀𝗼𝗹𝘃𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗖𝗵𝗮𝗶𝗻𝘀 and Programming that keep us disconected from our vital force (se*ual energy) and Embody it, live Freely and Owning our power, beauty, magic in a conscious way!
🌹𝗜𝘁 𝗶𝘀 𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝘁𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝗮 𝗗𝗲𝗲𝗽 𝗗𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗼 𝗵𝗲𝗮𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗿𝗲𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗠𝗘𝗡 and toxic masculinity that also lives inside of us! With our dads and masculine lineages! And also with our Bodies!
This requires a lot of 𝗮𝘃𝗮𝗶𝗹𝗮𝗯𝗶𝗹𝗶𝘁𝘆 𝘁𝗼 𝘀𝗲𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗧𝗿𝘂𝘁𝗵 𝗶𝗻 𝘆𝗼𝘂, to embrace the emotions trapped and rejected and deemed “bad”. It takes courage to speak up and to invite your Shadows out to the table giving it space, time, acceptance and integrating it.
💚This is a process. A necessary one for you as a WOMAN to become WHOLE again and not live in split parts hating and abusing yourself and your peers. This means 𝗙𝗿𝗲𝗲𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳 𝗳𝗿𝗼𝗺 𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝘁𝗼𝗿𝘆𝗶𝗲𝘀 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗰𝗮𝗿𝗿𝘆 𝘀𝗶𝗹𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗹𝘆 that put you down for who you are, free yourself from guilt and shame and also anger and fear!
⚜️So you can be reborn and wear your Crown!
⚜️So you can pass a different inheritance to your daughters!
⚜️So you can live your life in peace with yourself, in harmony, feeling empowered, safe, beautiful and Whole!
This is an invitation.
Feel it. Deeply.
If you are 𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑑𝑦 𝑡𝑜 𝑒𝑚𝑏𝑎𝑟𝑘 𝑜𝑛 𝑡ℎ𝑖𝑠 𝑙𝑖𝑓𝑒 𝑡𝑟𝑎𝑛𝑠𝑓𝑜𝑟𝑚𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑗𝑜𝑢𝑟𝑛𝑒𝑦 I am here to hold and guide. I love TRUTH and I am an Expert in Shadow Work!
I’ve done it for soo long with myself and hundrends of clients already!
♥️I am all for Empowering you as a Woman, Creatrix, Magician, Queen that you Are! You diserve the best life and the best relationship with yourself first!
I am a message away!
(pic by Piotr Topolski)

Staring at the wall is ok! If you are a woman PLEASE read this!

Today all my plans fell appart. What did I do? Embraced the opportunity. While my mind was still trying to make me do something (for a short while) I felt no desire to do anything. No desire to go out even if the sun is shining and no desire to meet, talk or see anyone. No energy for work, thinking, planning or even cleaing the house.

I am in my premenstrual phase – called the Wisdom phase – the one where our energy as women goes down and inside. We retract to the inner world and have less energy for the outer, for doing. Because we ARE WOMEN and THIS IS NORMAL.

 

What is NOT NORMAL in our society is the masculine way of functioning applied to everyone! Thanks to the “WE ARE EQUAL MOVEMENT” women are not treated the same as men and they, themselves THINK that it is normal to do things the same as men, have the same amount of energy as men and the same efficiency EVERY DAY OF THE MONTH.

SAY WHAAAAAT?

 

I am sick of the commercials I occasionally see in places I visit – to tampons – commercials that present and thus PROGRAM the women to work the same, climb mountains, do the same things as every other day with no worries. BULLSHIT!

 

Women do not want OR feel to do anything while menstruating or even before that actually. IF women were actually connected to their bodies and needs they would choose to follow their NATURAL ENERGY as CYCLICAL BEINGS.

 

It is hard to learn to REST in a society that REWARDS DOING, being BUSY all the time, being on the go.

It is hard for a woman that works a corporate environment to feel appreciated and valued when she is NOT being EFFICIENT ALL DAYS of the month, 10 hours a day ( or more).

…or for a mom of 3 to feel enough and valuable when she is taking time for herself while the kids, the house needs something done.

 

I do get that AND I also am inviting you to this scenario: 

WHAT IF WE WOULD NORMALISE TAKING DAYS OFF in the middle of the week or an afternoon OFF because our body requires it? Because, for example, we are menstruating or are in the premenstrual phase and literally we have NO ENERGY, NO MENTAL FOCUS and all we wish is to sleep, sit under the covers and be left alone?

WHAT IF we would LISTEN TO OURSELVES FIRST and PRIORITISE OURSELVES AND EDUCATE our family, husband, friends, colleagues and even bosses that we need THIS specific DAY OFF as OUR HEALTH IS THE MOST IMPORTANT TO US?

WHAT IF instead of making that job, that career that requires so many sacrifices and OUR HEALTH taken away WE WOULD prioritise OUR BODY, our Emotional well being, our MENTAL HEALTH, our overall well being?

 

What if we begin the CHANGE from where we are instead of saying : My boss doesnt give me days off, you don’t know how it is to work there, my kids need me all the time, I don’t have time to breathe, I don’t have time to waste, maybe you can but me….my life is different!

 

WHAT IF we would CHANGE THE ENTIRE ANGLE and Perspective and STOP being VICTIMS who actually GIVE THEIR POWER AWAY to the systems, to the career, to the bosses, the job, the kids, the men etc? What if we would STOP MAKING our kids or jobs EXCUSES TO JUST CONTINUE being miserable and surrendered to a way of living that slowly KILLS US?

 

Just because society teaches us, enslaves us to thinking that SELF VALUE is TIED TO BEING BUSY and considers TIME OFF, pause, rest, relaxation a waste of time, something for when I am dead, unthinkable in this day and time DOES NOT MEAN THAT SO SHOULD WE, that we shoould be ok with it, adhere to it and continue subscribing to it! 

 

EVERYTHING IS A CHOICE!

you being at that job, you sitting in that envirnment you hate, you being a slave to money or status, you having or not having kids or a family, you listening in to your mom’s opinions or to your man’s opinions even if they are NOT good for you. Everything in your life, where you are, how your life looks IT IS YOUR CHOICE and you keep choosing it as long as you do not change anything.

 

You will keep suffering and being overworked, chronically tired and stressed out, having endocrine problems and imbalnces, having health issues with your ovaries and fertility and so many more as long as YOU KEEP CHOOSING THE SAME giving your power to the external – society, media, family, culture – job- and PUTTING YOURSELF LAST.

There is NOTHING WRONG with DOING NOTHING ! With taking breaks, pauses, time off when you have no energy anymore!

Even if you have all the day planned out, even if everyone else is doing something even if you wanted to do that X thing now….And yes, you will find excuses like ” BUT THEY NEED ME” , I can’t just abandon them/her/him.

That is actually your DEPENDENCE to Suffering, to Hardship, sacrifice and has a hint of narcisism in it too.

Do you really think that your colleagues at work cannot do without you ? Only you can solve it?

Do you really think that your husband cannot find something to eat for himself or even take care of the kids for a day? Is he that powerless and clueless? 

Do you really think that you mother is not an adult that cannot take care of herself ? 

REFLECT on that. Do you know that by acting like this you TAKE THEIR POWER AWAY? Their lessons and even deeper than this? Have you ever considered this?

Are you that boring and afraid of yourself and of spending time alone, in silence, taking time OFF that you need to always be doing something even if others can do it too? 

 

I know this got deep suddenly. But this is the truth needing to surface.

 

WE are INVITED TO TAKE RESPONSABILITY of our lives, choices, HEALTH, WELLBEING in all aspects!

 

We are invited to remember that we ARE NOT THE SAME AS MEN! At all!

 

We are invited to remember that we are THE ONES CHOOSING what life looks like for us. We are adults and have the power to decide everything we need, want  independently of what others say, think or even try to manipulate you into.

 

We are invited to STAND UP for ourselves, let the other be and ACTUALLY FACE our own demons and take our POWER BACK.

 

Do you know that most women HAVE NO IDEA how their body functions? Have no idea about their hormones, the stages of their cycles, the energy levels and the actual NEEDS of a Woman?!

Society WANTS us and keeps us disconnected, powerless, fearfull, away from time to actually think and ask questions. BUT IT DEPENDS on EACH of us if we keep letting them giving them the power we have and keep remaining ignorant, unhealthy, disconnected, unhappy and enslaved.

 

My invitation is to start slowing down, reflecting on all of the above. Put it on paper.

Then ask yourself about your own body, needs, health. Start taking time off. Start listening to your needs.

ASk for guidance and find out more about being a WOMAN. Take your power back. Make different, empowering choices for yourself. IT IS UP TO YOU ONLY!

 

As a WOMAN you are WORTHY, ENOUGH, PRECIOUS being cyclical and moody sometimes, doing nothing on a tuesday if that feels right, taking constant time to recharge , feel yourself and rest.

LETS NORMALISE BEING WOMEN.

LETS NORMALISE TIME OFF.

LETS TAKE OUR POWER BACK!

 

I am sitting on the couch writing on a day where I had plans but they all went away just like that. I then accepted that I do not have energy for much so for a while I sat under the covers, looking at the flowers on my desk, at the green trees and forest outside, sun shining on them, listenting to the birds chirping and just being.

Then this inspiration CAME.

This could not have come through me if I WOULDN’t have made SPACE for me to receive it. If I hadn’t stopped to rest and actually do nothing,

Instead of being stubborn, getting angry because things don’t get my way, trying to fix and control them, fight with life…I chose rest. I chose to be in alignment with my body and level of energy today. And this GEM came out.

 

All is well. Universe is supporting you and guiding you all the way. You cannot see and receive that as long as you are only in your doing mood, head mode, analize mode and never actually look around- see the signs, listen in and STOP for a bit 

 

Life is more than doing, chasing, running around like headless chikens, consuming our HEALTH away and never asking ourselves if this IS what we want, need dream, wish for us. If this IS OUR NORMAL or actually not.

 

If this resonated with you…and lit a little light inside SHARE IT with love so it can inspire and support other too.

 

 

 

 

And if you were looking for this sign this is it. I am here to guide you BACK to yourself, back to health and wellbeing, back to your CENTER and EMPOWERED state so you can start making YOUR choices and create YOUR NORMAL. 

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Here’s me today staring at my flowers and window in the middle of the day: