๐™๐™๐™๐™๐™ƒ ๐™ฌ๐™–๐™ง๐™ฃ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ !๐™„ ๐™–๐™ข ๐™ฃ๐™ค๐™ฉ ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š ๐™‹๐™ง๐™ค๐™—๐™ก๐™š๐™ข ๐™Ÿ๐™ช๐™จ๐™ฉ ๐™—๐™š๐™˜๐™–๐™ช๐™จ๐™š ๐™„ ๐™–๐™ข ๐™– ๐™’๐™ค๐™ข๐™–๐™ฃ

What were the messages- subtle or in your face- you received about your body, sensuality and sexuality growing up? โ€ฆ and before thatโ€ฆ your mom, grandma, women all over?
โฃ๏ธโฃ๏ธโฃ๏ธThe TRUTH: because you are a woman you are definitely and without discussion the Temptress, the Issue, guilty. Because you are beautiful and magnetic and sensual by Nature you automatically seduce men and that makes you the bad guilty one! Even if you just walk around carefreeโ€ฆ let alone if you wear โ€œprovocativeโ€ clothes! God forbid that cleavage, that short skirt or who knows what that reveals your body. That makes you the guilty one if men treat you poorly.
It is your fault if you are abused, mocked, humiliated! How dare you be a Woman?! And embody your sexual power and magnetic energy?!!! Donโ€™t you know that is Bad? And makes men helpless – canโ€™t hold themselves responsible?
โฃ๏ธ Tสœษชs IS แด›สœแด‡ แดœษดแด…แด‡ส€สŸสษชษดษข MESSAGE แดกแด‡ ษขแด‡แด›! From the patriarchal and religious point of view!
Since Eve was already put in that box – the one that led all into sin (as if Adam was 11 and couldnโ€™t say Noโ€) ALL women are guilty! And this SHADOW living in the basement of our society, men, religion and even women is Stinky and Gross but so real!
๏ฟฝsoโ€ฆ as a girl- especially if there is a christian (not only) background I am expected to behave, to not wear jewels, to put on only covering the entire body clothes, no make upโ€ฆ nothing to Enhance my bad- seductress- evil side! Nothing to allow me to be aware , proud and free in my body, connected with my Sexual Energy. And that- to not tempt the men! โ€œWomen!!! Keep in your lane and do not dare show your beauty and sexiness as we are but mere mortal with no will, integrity, moralsโ€
I am fully letting Lilith Speak Up the TRUTH! It is Leo new moon with Lilith so present!
โ“Do you remember any moments , contexts in your childhood and teens when you were feeling awkward, ashamed, guilty for your looks, body, sensual expression?
โ“How has that rippled and been carried on as an adult woman?
I for once have been seen and treated as the guilty one in all contexts involving men. From the get go. Me being aware and embodying my se*ual energy was a big NO wrapped up in shame and anger.
So I have learnt during multiple years that I am wrong, bad for wanting pleasure or for being magnetic, for just showing myself as a woman. I have learnt that se*uality is bad for a woman to express but ok for men and in any circumstances she is the guilty one.
It makes my stomach turn thinking of those comments (from women too- as the patriarchal sexist gaze was internalized) : โ€œshe is a slut, she provoked him, she shouldnโ€™t dress like that!โ€ Again! Like the man involved has NO will, morals, restraint and integrity and he is absolved of all of his heinous actions!
This is a SERIOUS topic and BIG shadow we need to expose, recognize and work with towards acceptance and alchemy.
โฃ๏ธโค๏ธโ€๐Ÿฉนโš ๏ธ ๐™๐™๐™ž๐™จ ๐™ ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™™ ๐™ค๐™› ๐™ค๐™ฅ๐™ฅ๐™ง๐™š๐™จ๐™จ๐™ž๐™ค๐™ฃ ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™™ ๐™–๐™—๐™ช๐™จ๐™š ๐™ข๐™–๐™ ๐™š๐™จ ๐™ข๐™š ๐™–๐™จ ๐™– ๐™ฌ๐™ค๐™ข๐™–๐™ฃ ๐™จ๐™ฅ๐™ก๐™ž๐™ฉ ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™ฉ๐™š๐™ง๐™ฃ๐™–๐™ก๐™ก๐™ฎ, repress and reject the Sensual Seductress, embodied Magnetic Woman in me and this is how Shadow is created- split parts disowned and sent into the basement!
I turn into the repressed, judgy, anxious woman that sees sexuality something to be ashamed of, closed off, ashamed of her body and all things pleasurable and sensual.
I become my OWN internalized Patriarchal- Abuser: โ€œbe ashamed of ur body! Donโ€™t wear that – its too slutty, shut up and take it – its your duty!โ€ and soooo on do forth – you get it!
I am sure you also have this voice inside of you!
โค๏ธโ€๐ŸฉนThere is also a stage or the possibility you turn into the full on Shadow Seductress to punish men. You attract them through sexual games and use that as power having ur heart closed off and devouring their energy, leaving them after a one night stand or after they fall in love with you.
All the wounding this paradigm created- unbelievable strong!!!
Nowadays – se*ual content sells, women are se*ualized everywhere , the P@rn industry thrives AND in the same time Powerful, Sensual embodied women are villified, judged, shamed! In the same time this Shadow of โ€œyou are sinful, guilty if seducing menโ€ is soooo present and a message as well.
So we are fed the same thing in different ways.
โš ๏ธWe want women to be slu tty and give us their bodies buuut wait! ๐™’๐™š ๐™™๐™ค๐™ฃโ€™๐™ฉ ๐™ฌ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™ฉ ๐™’๐™ค๐™ข๐™š๐™ฃ ๐™–๐™ฌ๐™–๐™ง๐™š ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™™ ๐™˜๐™ค๐™ฃ๐™จ๐™˜๐™ž๐™ค๐™ช๐™จ ๐™ค๐™› ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š๐™ž๐™ง ๐™Ž๐™š*๐™ช๐™–๐™ก ๐™‹๐™ค๐™ฌ๐™š๐™ง ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™™ ๐™š๐™ฃ๐™š๐™ง๐™œ๐™ฎโ— ๐™๐™๐™š๐™ฎ ๐™–๐™ง๐™š ๐™™๐™–๐™ฃ๐™œ๐™š๐™ง๐™ค๐™ช๐™จโ—
๐ŸŒนIt is time to look deep inside into our shadow: rage, shame, guilt, fear around se*uality and freely expressing ourselves as women; around men and all the historical stories.
It is ok to recognize the deep Feelings you have and let them out- process them and give all the parts in you Space to be seen and Heard!
๐ŸŒน ๐—œ๐˜ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ถ๐—บ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฏ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ธ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ผ๐—น๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—–๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜€ and Programming that keep us disconected from our vital force (se*ual energy) and Embody it, live Freely and Owning our power, beauty, magic in a conscious way!
๐ŸŒน๐—œ๐˜ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ถ๐—บ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ธ๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ ๐——๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ฝ ๐——๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฝ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต ๐— ๐—˜๐—ก and toxic masculinity that also lives inside of us! With our dads and masculine lineages! And also with our Bodies!
This requires a lot of ๐—ฎ๐˜ƒ๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—ถ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜๐˜† ๐˜๐—ผ ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ง๐—ฟ๐˜‚๐˜๐—ต ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚, to embrace the emotions trapped and rejected and deemed โ€œbadโ€. It takes courage to speak up and to invite your Shadows out to the table giving it space, time, acceptance and integrating it.
๐Ÿ’šThis is a process. A necessary one for you as a WOMAN to become WHOLE again and not live in split parts hating and abusing yourself and your peers. This means ๐—™๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ณ ๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—บ ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜†๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฟ๐˜† ๐˜€๐—ถ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—น๐˜† that put you down for who you are, free yourself from guilt and shame and also anger and fear!
โšœ๏ธSo you can be reborn and wear your Crown!
โšœ๏ธSo you can pass a different inheritance to your daughters!
โšœ๏ธSo you can live your life in peace with yourself, in harmony, feeling empowered, safe, beautiful and Whole!
This is an invitation.
Feel it. Deeply.
If you are ๐‘Ÿ๐‘’๐‘Ž๐‘‘๐‘ฆ ๐‘ก๐‘œ ๐‘’๐‘š๐‘๐‘Ž๐‘Ÿ๐‘˜ ๐‘œ๐‘› ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘–๐‘  ๐‘™๐‘–๐‘“๐‘’ ๐‘ก๐‘Ÿ๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘ ๐‘“๐‘œ๐‘Ÿ๐‘š๐‘–๐‘›๐‘” ๐‘—๐‘œ๐‘ข๐‘Ÿ๐‘›๐‘’๐‘ฆ I am here to hold and guide. I love TRUTH and I am an Expert in Shadow Work!
Iโ€™ve done it for soo long with myself and hundrends of clients already!
โ™ฅ๏ธI am all for Empowering you as a Woman, Creatrix, Magician, Queen that you Are! You diserve the best life and the best relationship with yourself first!
I am a message away!
(pic by Piotr Topolski)

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